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Sexy War
Sexy War is a simple two-player card game played with the entire deck, less the Jokers. Deal half of the deck to one player and the other half to yourself. You should each have 26 cards stacked face-down. No peeking! Card values go from highest to lowest in this order: Ace, King, Queen, Jack, ten, nine, eight, seven, six, five, four, three, and two.
Each player draws a card from the top of the stack and places it, face up, in the center of the playing surface. The highest card value wins. The winning player gets to ask the other player a question.
Tailor your questions for your particular situation. If this is, in fact, a first date, it’s good to keep the questions mild and innocuous. No need to get a drink thrown in your face or an angry date stomping out of a public place because you asked them if they’d be willing to have a threesome before you asked their favorite color.
Here are some good first-date questions
What did you want to be when you grew up?
What’s the one thing you like most and least about your job?
Where do you see yourself in the next five years?
What’s the most important thing to you, in a relationship?
Tell me more about _______ (something they mentioned previously)
Here are some good advanced questions
If you’re an established couple and are playing this game to spice up your love-life or just to entertain yourselves, you can add some kick to your questions:
What do you love most about us?
What is your favorite sex position and why?
What do you think about threesomes?
What is a sexual fantasy of yours that you have never told anyone?
In the event that there is a tie, the players draw three more cards each and the player with the highest third card wins. They get to ask their partner to do a dare. Again – mild for new couples, spicy for not-so-new couples:
Mild
Kiss my forehead.
Let me hold your hand.
Let me kiss the tip of your nose.
Spicy
Hum with my nipple in your mouth.
Kiss my neck.
Give me a ten-minute back massage.
Either way you chose to go, you’ll end up knowing more about your partner and having a good time doing it.
Do you need some more ideas for questions to ask? Michael Webb’s eBook 1000 Questions for Couples is an extensive collection of questions that you should ask your mate – and will be sure to have some good ones for this game! (Link opens in a new window.)
